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From what I've seen, you need to install a regular class 3 hitch on the deuce to tow a civilian trailer. I can't answer the other 2 things.
Here is a document I downloaded from this forum a while back, I forgot who posted it, but I couldn't find the post it was from so I hope whoever it is...