Gunny,
No job left my shop without 6-8 hours load test. I don't think you need to run it 8 hours, but 2-3 hours would not hurt. On some sets, after an hour, if they were wet stacked badly, the carbon chunks flew out of the exhaust like hail. We almost set the woods behind the shop on fire. I assume/hope your set isn't wet stacked. So its not like you need to make it an all day project. I would indeed turn off the large loads, get the house on "TAC POWER" and then turn on large loads like the water heater, etc. Thats the problem with AUTO START. If you have a large load, and the generator rejects it, fine if you are home. But what happens when you are in the back 40? Set runs, but no power output. The good part of load test with the house is knowing that it works! Or not. Working out the bugs now is called PPPPPPP.
Guyfang